Happy New Year (Prince Can't Die Again)

Tuesday, December 27, 2016

Sign o' the Times

I would be expecting too much to even imagine that my personal health and well-being would be in lockstep with the health of my community, nation or planet.   Personally for me, 2016 was an extension of my honeymoon, full of health and happiness for my family and I.  In contrast to that happiness, our society lost too many talented personalities and sadly acquiesced to a hateful and cynical political story brought forth by a man that is unqualified to be the President of the United States.  He isn't even gone yet and I already miss my outgoing POTUS.  In true DIY style, Mac McCaughan lead singer of the great Raleigh NC band Superchunk and founder of Merge records, released a cool and fitting tribute to 2016 with a nod that 2017 cannot get any worse Happy New Year (Prince can't die again).  Let's hope he's right and that our nation wakes up, takes notice and fights to preserve our freedoms, democracy and our environment.  

The musical community fared poorly in a different but sadder way.  In 2016 we lost a number of great artists, including three prolific and important artists to me; David Bowie, Glenn Frye, and Prince.   I consider myself a real music fan, someone that pays attention to music and supports it by buying music and paying to see the artists perform.   I'm filled with a vague sense of guilt for not having seen any of these three legends in person. Performances in the for of youtube videos, musical anthologies and extensive revisits of their works will have to do. That and a pledge to get the hell out more often and make the time to see who I want to see.  Bucket list is such a trite phrase but I'm building my musical list and need to experience the greats, past, present and future while still capable…and willing.

The loss of Prince hit me a bitter hard and deeper than Bowie or Frye's death because he was my generation's own original.  Right?  Based on his 57 years on this earth, I guess he was not a Gen-X'er but he sure as hell was on the bedroom walls of my generation and on my mix tapes, tape decks, turntables and apple play lists.  My birth at the end of 1965 does officially qualify my X cred but with Purple Rain's explosion onto the scene in '84, we could not help noticing the brilliance of the music and the artist.  He appealed to black and white kids and just about everybody else. Jimi Hendrix guitar riffs,  rock ballads, funky grinds, disco beats,rap and whatever version of rock n roll or funk you liked. How about that Super Bowl halftime show in Miami in the rain or the jam at the Hall of Fame with Petty, Lynne, Winwood et al?! He's clearly influenced many musicians and his music will not be forgotten.  Prince is dead.  Long live Prince. 

My year end playlist is a celebration of the songs and artists that impacted me in 2016. Explore, enjoy and let me know what you think.  The links to videos are below and contain some live and unique performances and of some of my favorites tunes from 2016.

Honeymoon mix:
Father John Misty - Real Love Baby
Bon Hiver - 33 God
In a Blackout - Hamilton Leithauser and Rostam

Best Six Songs of 2016:
1. Pedestrian at Best - Courtney Barnett
2. In a Drawer - Band of Horses
3. Shut Up Kiss Me - Angel Olson
4. Giant - Banks and Steelz
5. Dark Necessities - Red Hot Chili Peppers
6. In a Blackout - Hamilton Leithauser

Secondary Six:
Berlin Got Blurry - Parquet Courts
Smooth Sailing - Leon Bridges
Pretty Pimpin - Kurt Vile
33 God - Bon Hiver
On Hold - the xx
Burn the Witch - Radiohead

Although not on this year's list, Pearl Jam rules the roost. Man, why did I take so long to catch a non-festival Pearl Jam show? How can a band stay so true to its roots and take care of its fans so thoroughly? The energy, musicianship, passion, artistry and straight forward, raw rock-n-roll power was mesmerizing at their show in my newly adopted vacation town of Greenville, SC.   Those traits, along with Eddie's connection to his audience blew me away and made me appreciate the ability for some to take their passion and convert it to their vocation while earning a damn good penny.  Then, to top things off, I got to catch Pearl Jam at Fenway this summer and with super high expectations, the girls and I enjoyed a hot and steamy night in the grandstands at Fenway. I think my expectations were a bit out of whack but oh hell, it was still powerful.

Although highly anticipated, I did not have lofty expectations for the Alabama Shakes show in Charleston.  The venue, Volvo Car Stadium (nee the Family Circle Cup Tennis Stadium) on Daniel island surely impressed. We struggled with the sound early on but a short walk down a level saved the night and eradicated the problem. I guess there was just not enough speaker to entertain those up high. I remember a Ramones show in a small music club/pub on Halloween somewhere in Queens or Long Island that boasted about 5x the speakers at this outdoor spacious stadium.  I vaguely remember that the only way to differentiate one song from the next was Joey shouting, "one two three four" at the top of his lungs and more noise just pouring out at us.  Epic and definitely memorable

I look back at my favorite musical artists by staying in the present and appreciating what's out there, peaking ahead for the next cool thing, but never assuming the past was better than the present or that the future will be better than the past. Speaking of the future, how about the brand new High Water Music Festival making its debut on the North Charleston waterfront at Riverfront Park.  Very cool that local band mates Cary Ann Hearst and Michael Trent from Shovels & Rope are putting on such a great festival and yes, I have tickets to the too-good-to-be-believed festival that is officially sold out.   Headliners include The Shins, The Avett Brothers, Nathaniel Raitfliff and the Night Sweats, Deer Tick, Shovels & Rope, Dawes, Jump Little Children, and more for a total of 20 plus bands. Nice.  Oh yeah, and Shakey Graves on NYE at Charleston Music Hall.  

Hang in there, get involved and make 2017 the best you can by doing good things for yourself, your family, your community, your country and your earth.  


Sunday, February 14, 2016

Fantastic Voyage

2015 was such a fantastic voyage.  Love, travel, physical activity, music and deep connections with friends and family made the year special.  Carmen and I wed on June 6, 2015 on the Carolina Girl and it was an incredible wedding week, wedding day and honeymoon, exceeding my expectations on every level.  Also as expected, the wonderful evening on the Girl raced by far too quickly and before we knew it, the DJ was calling Carmen and I for our last dance, "All I Want Is You" by our beloved band, U2.  We were privileged, honored and so happy to enjoy the company of our family, friends, loved ones, hanging out together on the waterways near our Charleston home.  Bridget, Ailish and Owen shined brightly that night as they have from their first days on earth, filling me with joy and pride for who they are along with anticipation of who they would become.  The children's relationship with Carmen, beautiful and evolving, was yet another reason for me to look forward with expectation and joy.

On a bittersweet note, I can't describe  deeply enough how especially missed my mom Pat, my dad Bob and sister Dale were. They were always there for me and on this night of love and celebration, I felt the loss powerfully.  My mom, especially close and loving, would have appreciated Carmen and her effervescent and deep beauty. I know that.  She would also have loved to hang and talk and enjoy her mom Brenda's presence and clearly would have been on the dance floor with her.  My dad would appreciate Carmen and what she means to me but also would have relished meeting Carmen's dad George and his wonderfully Charlestonian family.  I long for a photo of Carmen and our complete families, including my beautiful sister Dale I but know that it will only happen in my dreams.

Music, as it typically does with Carmen and I, provided the tapestry and set the tone for the evening.  Our wedding on the Carolina Girl was nothing short of spectacular, everything Carmen and I could have hoped for, including perfectly warm and inviting weather.  With the sites, sounds and smells of the maritime world all about us and salt barely flaking on my lapels, we could not have had a better backdrop.  With that said, we spent lots of time and focus crafting the ultimate playlist and party mix that would accentuate the night with the sounds we had in our heads.  Alas, not all is perfect and we did not get the exact result we expected.  I mean, the music was good, great dancing and lots of fun, but our DJ missed the mark on what we were totally after.  It was partly my fault, partly his fault for hearing what I was saying but not really listening to what I was telling him.   Mostly smaller things we could discuss over a few local craft beers, which by the way I forgot to order and we did not have that night as I had planned, but still something that bothers me a bit. 

So in light of that, I compiled a number of the songs, 72 great ones as a matter of fact, that were on our list, many played, many were not.  These songs provide our backdrop to the laughter, love and celebration of our sacred wedding night.  On that wonderfully warm and beautiful June night in Charleston harbor, Carmen and I fell more deeply in love as we laughed and danced without self-consciousness as the night flew by way faster than one could imagine.  And these songs will forever mean more to us than simply the combination of their words, notes, choruses and refrains.
Enjoy,

Voyage 1: Preview

Tonight, Tonight                        Smashing Pumpkins      
Rise                                            Eddie Vedder   
Here Comes Your Man              Pixies   
Breezeblocks                             Alt-J      
Do You Realize??                      The Flaming Lips            
Everlong (Acoustic Version)     Foo Fighters      
Into Your Arms                          Lemonheads    
Wake Up                                    Arcade Fire       
Howling At the Moon               Phantogram     
Gooey                                        Glass Animals   
Your Love Is the Place              Teenage Fanclub            
Never Tear Us Apart                  INXS     
Three Little Birds                       Bob Marley and The Wailers         
Time of Your Life                      Green Day         
Never Going Home                    Phantogram     
Recover                                      CHVRCHES        
Islands                                        The XX 
One                                             U2        
Near Death Experience              Andrew Bird     

Voyage 2: Primary
Intro                                           The XX 
I Melt With You                         Nouvelle Vague
I Melt With You                         Modern English
When I Get My Hands On You  The New Basement Tapes          
Into The Mystic                          Van Morrison   
Blessed                                        Elton John         
Right Here, Right Now               Jesus Jones       
Policy Of Truth                           Depeche Mode
Bizarre Love Triangle                 New Order        
Howling At the Moon                 The Ramones           
Howlin' for You                           The Black Keys  
Give It Away                               The Red Hot Chili Peppers          
What You Need                           INXS     
Feel Good Inc.                             Gorillaz
Every Other Freckle                    alt-J      
Beautiful Day                              U2        

Voyage 3: Party
Fire It Up                                     Modest Mouse
The Seed (2.0)                             The Roots          
Revolution Rock                          The Clash          
It's Tricky                                     Run-DMC          
Fantastic Voyage                          Lakeside            
Where It's At                                Beck                   
Let's Groove                                 Earth, Wind & Fire         
World In My Eyes                        Depeche Mode
Groove Is In the Heart                 Deee-Lite           
Nothing to Worry About              Peter Bjorn and John     
Need You Tonight                        INXS     
Peace, Love and Understanding  Elvis Costello/The Attractions    
Once In a Lifetime                      Talking Heads   
Alive and Kicking                       Simple Minds   
Don't Know How to Party           The Mighty Mighty Bosstones   
I'm Shipping Up to Boston          Dropkick Murphys         

Voyage 4: Party II
Heroes                                          David Bowie 
Inside Out                                     Spoon  
Deeper Shade Of Soul                  Urban Dance Squad
We Exist                                       Arcade Fire       
R U Mine?                                    Arctic Monkeys
Walk This Way                             Run-DMC          
Uptown Funk                                Mark Ronson, featuring Bruno Mars    
One Nation Under a Groove         Funkadelic        
Let's Get It Started                        The Black Eyed Peas      
Mysterious Ways                           U2
Suck My Kiss                                Red Hot Chili Peppers   
Digital Witness                              St. Vincent
Romance                                       Wild Belle
Genius of Love                             Tom Tom Club  
Private Idaho                                 The B-52's         
Shining Star                                   Earth, Wind and Fire         
I Wish                                            Stevie Wonder 
Hey Ya!                                          Outkast
1999                                               Prince
Like a Prayer                                 Madonna
Hysteric                                         The Yeah Yeah Yeahs
All I Want Is You                           U2